On 21st August at around 3AM my dad "David", husband and father of 2, passed away bravely and quietly in his sleep. I love you dad, and we will all miss you deeply and hope that you are in a better place.
My dad was diagnosed with cancer approximately 2 months ago and given 6 months to live, sadly he didn't last that long. He accepted his fate bravely and with dignity without fear or complaint.
David was a great dad and was a good kind hearted man who would do anything for anyone and would turn the other cheek most of the time to any grief anyone gave him, I don't think there was a nasty bone in his body. He was liked by everyone that knew him, and will be sorely missed.
I would live to give my thanks to St Catherine's Hospice who looked after him in his final weeks when my mum was no longer able to. They really are a nice caring bunch of people and the hospice is a nice place that allows residents lots of freedom and provides plenty of comforts and support for their final days. I would highly recommend St Caterine's to anyone that is unfortunate enough to be dying of cancer and gets to the stage where they cannot look after themselves, and to anyone who has a family member in this state, please check it out, it really is not like sticking them in hospital or in a home. The site above is for the one in Crawley, sussex, but they do have others around the country.
The hospice do not charge for their time or help and is run purely on donations, so I would kindly ask, if you support charities or have a few quid to spare, please make a donation.
Aug 26, 2008 at 2:16 PM Russ, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Cancer is a cruel disease. I wish you the best in getting through these rocky times.
Aug 26, 2008 at 2:32 PM Sorry to here about your loss Russ.
My condolences and kind regards to you and your family at this sad time.
Aug 26, 2008 at 3:20 PM Russ, I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this painful time.
Aug 26, 2008 at 3:46 PM So sorry Russ. My condolences to you and your family.
Aug 26, 2008 at 7:50 PM Sorry to hear the bad news! Best of luck to you and your family throughout this tough time.
Aug 26, 2008 at 9:41 PM Very sorry to hear this Russ. I know its a great loss and one that cant be recovered. May God give you the strength to get through this phase.
Aug 27, 2008 at 10:00 AM Very sorry to hear about your dad, I always thought he was a great bloke.
Steve
Aug 29, 2008 at 8:49 PM I saw your post and just wanted to pass on my condolences to you and all your family Russ. My heart goes out to you, I lost my Dad in the same way when I was 16. All my sympathy is with you.